Currently in Indonesia, there are members of legislative election campaigns.
Many his party democracy we see in both the road and on TV. Many promises that were delivered to attract and influence people. But whether they are effective leaders? Still need proof….. But what real an effective leading is?
The key to becoming lead effectively.
The key to becoming an effective leader is not actually just making other people that want to follow, but make you being a person who is eligible to be followed.
In principle, leading is an influence. Influence others to follow. They want to follow, because they believe with us, what they want can be achieved. If we are not worthy to be trusted, it can be guaranteed, they will not want to follow us.
Therefore, listen to them. God created two ears and one mouth, meaning we should listen twice more than that of speech. Deliver your ego. And they serve it. To be trusted, be a good follower. A good leader is a good follower. You will not be able to become a leader without being follower first.
Next, it’s complicated relationship and partnership with them. A relationship is not when you need them. If that happens, you manipulate them for you. Remember that lead is to serve. The more you are emotionally close to them, the stronger your relationship with them. You will automatically influence the stronger. Leadership is influence, not less not more.
Work hard to raise them. Not working hard to ensure that they take you. Not…. That’s a different situation. Therefore, it is a hard discipline required. Discipline will make your character stronger, so worthy to be followed.
They need time. How do you think?